For people in consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, open relationships, kink, queer relationships, and other non-traditional paths. Online from anywhere in the world. Direct work with the author of Open Deeply.
Free · Up to 50 minutes · Online from anywhere
Kate Loree, LMFT, ATR, MBA
Open Deeply
A guide to building conscious, compassionate open relationships. She Writes Press, 2022.
The podcast →Open Deeply Podcast
Sixty-five-plus episodes, co-hosted with Sunny Megatron. A long-form, sex-positive conversation.
The practice →23 Years
Of clinical work, and over twenty years of lived experience inside CNM, kink, swing, and queer communities.
Where can Kate coach?
Anywhere in the world. Coaching is online and has no geographic restriction. Therapy is California-only.
What does it cost?
Sliding scale, pay-as-you-go. Rates and fit are discussed on the free consultation call.
How does it work?
Every engagement starts with a free consultation call of up to 50 minutes. Online, by video or phone.
Coaching is future-focused, goal-oriented support and accountability. With me, that means I bring 23 years of clinical experience, two decades inside CNM and kink communities, the frameworks I introduced in Open Deeply, and a real toolkit. We use that to do the work you actually want to do, in the present. It is not therapy. If you are in California and want psychotherapy (diagnosis, treatment, full clinical confidentiality), my therapy practice is at kateloree.com.
Visit my therapy practiceI have been part of these communities for over twenty years. I know the dynamics that conventional relationship coaches miss. Metamour negotiation, polycule structure, kink integration, opening up, closing back down, jealousy, NRE, queer-specific relational patterns. This is the work I have been doing the longest.
Couples, monogamous or not, who want a more honest, embodied, alive intimacy than the one they're living in. Sometimes that means opening up. Sometimes it means staying closed and finally telling the truth. Either is a real path.
For people doing serious self-work, somatic, contemplative, integration-oriented, who want a coach who can hold the whole picture: the relationships, the body, the meaning-making, the spiritual seeking. Not therapy. A practitioner who can think with you about what's emerging.
Coaching with me is not a five-step program. It is a deep set of named tools, most of them mine, that I draw from session by session in service of what you actually need.
EPIC Communication Model
Double Triggers
Embodied Consent
Attachment, reframed
Positive Affect Tolerance
Somatic Tracking & Co-Regulation
Parts-Aware Coaching
Internal Compass Alignment
Tantra-Inspired Connection Work
The work I do is in service of one thing: helping you find your truth through your full internal compass, from a grounded, centered place. Then we build a life and relationships that are actually aligned with it.
Kate LoreeUp to fifty minutes, online. We talk about what you are working on, how I work, and find a rate that works for both of us. If we are a fit, we book your first session from there.
Schedule a free coaching consult →Online from anywhere · Pay-as-you-go · Sliding scale available