The book the coaching draws from.
A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships
She Writes Press, 2022
Open Deeply is the book I wrote for the people I keep meeting in my practice. Couples, triads and individuals trying to build non-monogamous, kink-affirmative, queer-inclusive relationships without losing themselves in the process. It is the book I wish I had at age thirty-two.
The frameworks I use in coaching (the EPIC Communication Model, Double Triggers, my approach to jealousy, the somatic grounding work) are introduced in the book in their original form. Reading the book before our first session will not be required. But many clients have read it before they ever wrote to me, and the work goes faster when we are working from a shared vocabulary.
What you'll find inside.
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The EPIC Communication Model
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Double Triggers and how to name them in real time
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The somatic grounding practice that makes hard conversations possible
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Approaches to jealousy that go beyond "just communicate more"
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Non-monogamy without the dominator-culture residue
Coaching with the person who wrote the book.
The frameworks in Open Deeply (EPIC, Double Triggers, the somatic grounding work) are the toolkit I draw on in coaching. If you've read the book and want to work with me directly, that's what this is for.
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